I have to say, I went back to Tallahassee several weeks ago for the FSU/Clemson game (which was an insane nail biter) and while the gals all dolled up for gameday were terribly cute--I just couldn't do it. I need a little Sneak Action in my life come gameday and DENIM . Lots and lots of denim. Paige has forever been one of my favs (see HERE, HERE, & HERE) and THESE EDGEMONTS are no exception. Suckers hug in all the right places and are super comfy to boot. Make sure to check out my gals, Kristin, Cathy, & Lacey to see how they styled their Paige's.
jacket (HM c/o), top (Generation Love, Morton James, Lexington c/o), jeans (AG), chucks (Converse), bag (Michael Kors Bedford), beanie (Target), shades (Ray Ban), rings (Lagos, Anna Beck), bracelets (Sylvia Benson c/o) Back in the saddle gang---took a little spontaneous trip to FLA which was pure loveliness. Many of y'all will be getting glitzed and glammed tonight, but not I---I intend to spend my NYE with my sweet babes and some wonderful friends very chillaxed and family focused...banging on pots and pans come midnight with all the kiddies. Def intend to wear something comfy and cozy to celebrate the new year similar to the rig above--say a comfy sweatshirt, sneaks, and skinnies. But if I may chat beyond the outfit and take a moment to hop on my soapbox (brace yourself gang, she's gonna get a smidge personal)..... This post I have attempted to type numerous times throughout the course of the year only to be faced with a crazy amount of fear and insecurity of exposing too much of my personal life. And yet as I close out what was hands down the most difficult year of my life, I'd be remiss if I didn't write a little something to express my gratitude and appreciation as well as verbalize the many blessings I have in my life. No way to say this eloquently so here goes...I got divorced this year. Divorce is insanely difficult and heart wrenching for anyone---add two beautiful, precious, innocent little girls and well, it just compounds an already hellacious situation. But you know what, we got through it. I got through it. I'd like to believe I did so with dignity and grace and my sweet girls are thriving and happy as clams. I'd also like to think I'm much stronger than I ever believed myself to be--when you don't think you can handle much more, or get out of bed--you do. Because you have to. Because you have two sweet little people that depend on you and need you and deserve to have the best possible you. Because you know there is light at the end of a very dark tunnel. Because even though you think you have it the worst, there are others that would kill for your situation. Because you have to be an example of strength and there's time to cry after they go to bed. Well that's what I did...I leaned, too. I leaned on my family who when I tell you is phenomenal, well that's a hell of an understatement--never. left. my. side. Pushed me. Cheered me on. Kept me afloat. Made me laugh. Supported me endlessly. I leaned on my girlfriends---girlfriends are everything. I admitted weakness. I made mistakes. I asked for help (something I HATE to do). I did many things that I've never had to do before, but you see that's the beauty of it---even in truly trying times..there are blessings underneath the rubble. I realized just how blessed I am for the beautiful, selfless, and loving people in my life. I also blogged. I blogged regularly. You know why? Because that was a piece of normalcy amongst a shitstorm of chaos. It was my therapy (well so was my actual therapist--what a little angel she is). And there's my thank you to you all---THANK YOU for following continuously, thank you for the sweet comments, the opportunities, the repins, the retweets, the FB likes---all the ridiculous things that may seem so trivial were little sheds of light throughout my day. Truly you all--thank you! And now, I'm sure there's a million better and more poetic ways I could have typed this post but I just drove 8 hours, am flippin' exhausted, and this is as good as I've got. So let's cheers to growth, life experiences, health, family, and friends---and let's definitely cheers to a fantastic 2014! Be safe tonight, gang...enjoy and let's catch up in the new year--got a sneaking suspicious it's gonna be a good one!
Going to keep the deets on this rig short and simple since there's lots of deals & picks to get to today. Simply stated---I LOVE this Plaid Shirt (Exhibit A & Exhibit B). Plaid is having a major moment right now and I for one am quite thrilled about that--alright gang, make it a good one and let's check out where I'll be scouting out the deals on this Cyber Monday below:
A sleek Pencil Skirt, chambray, & detailed Heels infuse a little personality into my day gig and, along with This Style Look, is one of my fave ways to dress for work. This Pencil Skirt is actually much more vibrant in person which is why I chose to tone her down with a chambray (Diggin this Lovely). Classics need not be boring--amp them up with color, prints, textures, & accessories and no doubt you've elevated your look!
Alright gang, cheers to a great week & to the winner of the Marc Allison Jeans Giveaway! Big congrats goes to Miss Wesleigh Gary--no doubt you'll do the bells justice my dear! Thank you to all who participated--much appreciated!
Some days I'm in the mood to create a 'look' for work (exhibits A, B, & C) other times, not so much. When my creativity is lacking and time isn't on my side, dresses like this lovely DVF are a gal's best friend. In a classic shape with figure flattering seaming, this number has become a work staple in my closet (that's not to say it isn't perfect for a number of other occasions). Initially I was going to toss her on with some black heels; however, a Nude Wedge helps to elongate the leg which is never a bad thing. Alright gang, hope you all had a lovely weekend. It was so gorg here in Lex that we def spent the majority of our time outside! Make it a good one!
Aside from the fact that this Frock is insanely affordable, I was immediately drawn to the fun graphic & its midi length. While I wanted to keep it more daytime with flats, I def intend to pair it with a fun Pair of Heels for an evening out. While in Florida, I went a little dress crazy and snagged several printed frocks--have you all spotted any fun printed dresses lately? I'm in a major dress mode right now and would love to hear. Alright, gang, enjoy the weekend and make it a fabulous one!
A Lacey Perspective
